For over a decade Cary has been assisting many couples and singles, throughout the world to transform their lives out of the emotional pain of relationship and dating challenges to creating joyous, juicy, sustaining relationships of their dreams. He has a unique ability to understand and empathize with people’s pain and challenges as his life has been littered with difficulties. Cary’s transparent, humorous, uplifting style comes out of being haunted most of his life with tremendous fear, doubt and lack of confidence; transforming his life out of depression and being on the brink of divorce to living a juicy life.

He is certified relationship & peak performance coach, international speaker and an award-winning, best-selling author, of In Love Forever: 7 Secrets to a Joyous, Juicy Relationship, in which he co-wrote and live out with his late wife, Wendy. Valentine’s innovative, patent pending, Turn Your Doubts Inside Out System – quickly transforms fears, doubts and worries permanently, creating more confidence, success, pleasure and joy. Cary narrated the Complete Works of Florence Scovel Shinn for Blackstone audio.

He is also an award-winning graduate of the Berklee College of Music; having performed with luminaries such as Dizzy Gillespie and members of Paul McCartney, Kenny Chesney, Stevie Wonder, Chris Botti, REO Speedwagon & Lionel Richie’s bands. He loves to travel and has performed extensively throughout Brazil.

Cary is excited to share that he recently got engaged! He, his fiancée and kids are very grateful to live in enchanting Hawaii. You’re gonna love feeling his passion for life welcome to the Summit.